Child custody-parenthood in a high conflict relationship

Co parenting is the "buzzword" that are always bantered about when people talk about parenting children after divorce. This is a good solution for parents who have low-conflict relationships and openly communicate about parenting issues. When high conflict parents are trying to do so and not it is called Conflicted parenting. Caused a conflict parenting can be devastating to a child and cause huge problems.

Face the facts about parents is high in conflict, it may be in the best interests of the child to have less back and forth. It may be better to have a parent has a child for school and activities because the parents are also causing a conflict. The stakes are too high to allow the battle on the way.

High conflict relationships seem to have their own lives. Everything seems to set off a firestorm. Minimum issue if the child is going to create a storm that even Zeus can be proud of. So how you approach this seemingly insurmountable obstacles to such an important element in your child's life? The answer is known as parallel parenting.

The first step to implement parallel parenting is to disengage from the other parent. The second step is to develop independent relationships with your child's teachers, coaches, doctors and friends. You do not want to rely on the other parent for your information.

Be prepared to take turns to take your child to doctors, dentists and doctors. If you get the report card, make sure you do a copy and forward it to the other parent. Do the same for the medical journals, sports schedules, and other extra-curricular activities. For example, is late for Exchange, let it go. Don't argue over whose turn it is to do what. Time is on your side.

When it comes time to meet with the mediator and to speak of custody and visitation schedules, you'll be miles ahead if you can be honest relationship high conflict and the comfort of your project plan, parallel parenting. Document your relationships with teachers, doctors and friends whenever possible.?If you can help with a project on your child's school and receive a thank you card, hang on. If you can train your child's soccer or little league team makes it display copies of immunization records. Above all, show that you are involved in your child's life.

Ed knows how difficult child custody battles can be and the emotional toll as they can take on both parents and children. He has created a forum http://www.child-custody-forum.com on where parents can go to share their experiences, ask for advice and support.